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Ronald Tsonetokoy

Ronald Tsonetokoy

December 21, 2023

Ronald Ross Tsonetokoy, born on February 10, 1954, to Fred & Grace (Lone Bear) Tsonetokoy, in Lawton, OK. He peacefully passed away on December 21, 2023. Ross was a proud member of the Kiowa Tribe, carrying with him the traditions and values that enriched his life. His connection to his cultural roots was a source of strength and identity. A...

Victoria Hope Tsehai

Victoria Hope Tsehai

December 20, 2023

Victoria (Vickie) Hope Vasquez Tsehai was introduced to the world on the 4 th day of June 1957 in Lawton OK to John and Delphine Vasquez. Vickie was sent back to the Lord on the 20 th day of December 2023 with her loving family by her side. Vickie grew up in and attended school at Broxton. She later moved...

Gary Don Spencer

Gary Don Spencer

December 17, 2023

Ambrose Louis better known as Gary Don Spencer, 65,Anadarko OK, was granted his angst wings on Sunday, December 17, 2023 in Anadarko, OK. He was born September 18,1958 in Anadarko, OK to Birdie Anderson. Gary attended and graduated from Anadarko High School in 1977. He played football and wrestled for the Anadarko Warriors. After graduation, he went to California and...

Arnetta Pritchard

Arnetta Pritchard

December 16, 2023

Arnetta Pritchard, age 87, of Carnegie, OK passed away Saturday, December 16,2023 at Legacy Village Senior Living, Castle Pines, CO. Arnetta was born on March 24,1936 in Eldorado, OK to John and Hattie Weyrick. Her parents were sharecroppers and when times became hard, they moved to Rush Springs, OK in search of a better way of life. She spent her...

Lanya Swanda

Lanya Swanda

December 16, 2023

Lanya Ann Swanda passed away on December 16, 2023, in Lawton, OK. She was born on August 19, 1940, in Carnegie, OK, to Lewis & Dollie (Burton) Swanda. Lanya attended school at Broxton Public School, Saint Patrick's Mission School, and Apache Public School. She was a colorful character that enjoyed telling "Aunt" jokes to connect with the younger generations of...

Richard Thomas Bull Bear

Richard Thomas Bull Bear

December 16, 2023

Richard Thomas Bull Bear, 57, passed away in OKC, OK on December 16, 2023. He was born in Lawton, OK on April 25, 1966 to Oscar Bull Bear, Sr and Velma (Edge) Bull Bear. Richard attended Anadarko Pulbic School. He was proud of his Kiowa heritage. Richard worked along his fathers side in the upholstering business. He is preceded in...

Dickie Elston

Dickie Elston

December 16, 2023

Dickie LaWayne Elston, of Rocky, Oklahoma, passed away on December 16, 2023, surrounded by his family. Dickie was born on May 13, 1949, to Clifford & Betty (Diffendaffer) Elston, in Rocky, Oklahoma. He started school at Rocky then he attended school at Cordell, where he graduated in 1967. Dickie married the love of his life, Dwan Holman, on April 21,...

Mary Lee Bolin

Mary Lee Bolin

December 14, 2023

Mary Lee Bolin, 82, of Hobart, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully with family by her side in Edmond Oklahoma. She was born on October 31, 1941, to Ancil Paul and Gladys Irma (Shaw) Gifford in Altus, Oklahoma. Mary grew up around Granite and Mangum. She attended school at City View near Blair. She married Mitchell Bolin Jr., on February 12, 1962...

Apache Jim Keith "A. J." Wetselline

Apache Jim Keith "A. J." Wetselline

December 14, 2023

Apache Jim Keith "A.J." Wetselline, 53 of Anadarko, OK went to his heavenly home December 14th 2023 in Anadarko. An all-night wake service will be Sunday December 17th 2023 at 7:00 pm J.J Methvin Church. The Funeral will be Monday December 18th 2023 at 11:00 am at Grace Church in Anadarko, OK. He will be laid to rest at Redbone...

Jerry Wayne Hughes

Jerry Wayne Hughes

December 10, 2023

No obituary found for this tribute.

Neil Travis Spradlin

Neil Travis Spradlin

December 9, 2023

Neil Travis Spradlin, 87, passed away on December 9, 2023 in Oklahoma City, OK. He was born October 27, 1936 in Anadarko, OK to Newt T. and Marie M. (Cosby) Spradlin. Neil attended and graduated the Anadarko Class of 1955. He joined the Army Reserve, then joined the Air Force for 4 years. Neil met the love of his life,...

Nick Callen

Nick Callen

December 9, 2023

Nick Arthur Callen, 80, of Gotebo, Oklahoma, passed away at home on December 9, 2023. He was born on May 29, 1943, to James and Lottie (wood) Callen in Norman, Oklahoma. Nick grew up and attended school in Cooperton until his Sophomore year, he then moved to Norman for his Junior and Senior year, graduating from Norman High School. After...

Deanna Gayle Wattenbarger

Deanna Gayle Wattenbarger

December 7, 2023

Deanna Gayle Wattenbarger, 83, of Hobart, Oklahoma, passed away on December 7th, 2023. She was born on May 5, 1940, to Glyn and Monna (Jennings) Corbin in Hobart, Oklahoma. She grew up and attended school in Port. She was Valedictorian in high school and graduated from Port High School in 1958. After high school Deanna attended OSU for two years....

Dangelo Olajuwon Pollard

Dangelo Olajuwon Pollard

December 7, 2023

Funeral service for Dangelo Olajuwon Pollard, 36 of Anadarko, Oklahoma is pending with Ray & Martha's Funeral Home. He died on Thursday, December 7, 2023, in Anadarko, Oklahoma.

Hank Frizzell

Hank Frizzell

December 5, 2023

Hank Frizzell, 61, passed away on December 5, 2023, surrounded by his family. Hank was born on August 28, 1962, to Henry Lee & Lou Ann Frizzell in Clinton, OK. He grew up in and around Clinton & Weatherford. He was a proud graduate of Weatherford High School, Class of 1980, where he made lifelong friendships. He married the love...

Carolyn Ruth Carpenter

Carolyn Ruth Carpenter

December 4, 2023

No obituary found for this tribute.

Richard Paul Kauahquo

Richard Paul Kauahquo

December 4, 2023

Richard Paul Kauahquo passed from this life on December 3rd 2023 at the age of 84 in Hobart, Oklahoma. He was born October 3rd, 1939 in Hobart, Oklahoma to Ernest Kauahquo and Helen Ahtapety Kauahquo. He was the great grandson of Chief Lone Wolf and Maunkee (Kiowa Bill). He was the grandson of Frank Kauahquo and Sarah Lone Wolf and...

Doris Marie Beck

Doris Marie Beck

December 4, 2023

Doris Marie Beck, 92, of Cordell, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully with her family by her side on December 4, 2023. She was born on March 7, 1931, to William Henry and Elizabeth Jane (Mitchell) Neeley in Butler, Oklahoma. Doris grew up and attended school in Dill City. She married the love of her life, Era Lee Beck, on June 12,...

Marty Lavert Autaubo

Marty Lavert Autaubo

November 30, 2023

Marty Lavert Autaubo, Loving Husband, Dad, Brother, Grandfather, and Uncle, passed away peacefully with his family by his side on November 30, 2023. He was born on May 3, 1947 to Henry and Agnes (Ware) Autaubo in Lawton, Oklahoma. Marty grew up and attended school in Mtn. View, OK. He served in the United States Army from 1968 to 1970...

Fredric Luke Cozad

Fredric Luke Cozad

November 29, 2023

Fredric (Freddie) Luke Cozad, 47, was born January 20th, 1976 to Lewis and Mabel (Tsoodle) Cozad. He departed this life peacefully to join his Lord and Savior on November 29th, 2023 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. As a young boy, Freddie received his Kiowa name, Koy-Hodle, which translates to "lungs." He treasured his Kiowa name, as it was passed down to...

Ronald Tsonetokoy

Ronald Tsonetokoy

December 21, 2023

Ronald Ross Tsonetokoy, born on February 10, 1954, to Fred & Grace (Lone Bear) Tsonetokoy, in Lawton, OK. He peacefully passed away on December 21, 2023. Ross was a proud member of the Kiowa Tribe, carrying with him the traditions and values that enriched his life. His connection to his cultural roots was a source of strength and identity. A...

Victoria Hope Tsehai

Victoria Hope Tsehai

December 20, 2023

Victoria (Vickie) Hope Vasquez Tsehai was introduced to the world on the 4 th day of June 1957 in Lawton OK to John and Delphine Vasquez. Vickie was sent back to the Lord on the 20 th day of December 2023 with her loving family by her side. Vickie grew up in and attended school at Broxton. She later moved...

Gary Don Spencer

Gary Don Spencer

December 17, 2023

Ambrose Louis better known as Gary Don Spencer, 65,Anadarko OK, was granted his angst wings on Sunday, December 17, 2023 in Anadarko, OK. He was born September 18,1958 in Anadarko, OK to Birdie Anderson. Gary attended and graduated from Anadarko High School in 1977. He played football and wrestled for the Anadarko Warriors. After graduation, he went to California and...

Arnetta Pritchard

Arnetta Pritchard

December 16, 2023

Arnetta Pritchard, age 87, of Carnegie, OK passed away Saturday, December 16,2023 at Legacy Village Senior Living, Castle Pines, CO. Arnetta was born on March 24,1936 in Eldorado, OK to John and Hattie Weyrick. Her parents were sharecroppers and when times became hard, they moved to Rush Springs, OK in search of a better way of life. She spent her...

Lanya Swanda

Lanya Swanda

December 16, 2023

Lanya Ann Swanda passed away on December 16, 2023, in Lawton, OK. She was born on August 19, 1940, in Carnegie, OK, to Lewis & Dollie (Burton) Swanda. Lanya attended school at Broxton Public School, Saint Patrick's Mission School, and Apache Public School. She was a colorful character that enjoyed telling "Aunt" jokes to connect with the younger generations of...

Richard Thomas Bull Bear

Richard Thomas Bull Bear

December 16, 2023

Richard Thomas Bull Bear, 57, passed away in OKC, OK on December 16, 2023. He was born in Lawton, OK on April 25, 1966 to Oscar Bull Bear, Sr and Velma (Edge) Bull Bear. Richard attended Anadarko Pulbic School. He was proud of his Kiowa heritage. Richard worked along his fathers side in the upholstering business. He is preceded in...

Dickie Elston

Dickie Elston

December 16, 2023

Dickie LaWayne Elston, of Rocky, Oklahoma, passed away on December 16, 2023, surrounded by his family. Dickie was born on May 13, 1949, to Clifford & Betty (Diffendaffer) Elston, in Rocky, Oklahoma. He started school at Rocky then he attended school at Cordell, where he graduated in 1967. Dickie married the love of his life, Dwan Holman, on April 21,...

Mary Lee Bolin

Mary Lee Bolin

December 14, 2023

Mary Lee Bolin, 82, of Hobart, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully with family by her side in Edmond Oklahoma. She was born on October 31, 1941, to Ancil Paul and Gladys Irma (Shaw) Gifford in Altus, Oklahoma. Mary grew up around Granite and Mangum. She attended school at City View near Blair. She married Mitchell Bolin Jr., on February 12, 1962...

Apache Jim Keith "A. J." Wetselline

Apache Jim Keith "A. J." Wetselline

December 14, 2023

Apache Jim Keith "A.J." Wetselline, 53 of Anadarko, OK went to his heavenly home December 14th 2023 in Anadarko. An all-night wake service will be Sunday December 17th 2023 at 7:00 pm J.J Methvin Church. The Funeral will be Monday December 18th 2023 at 11:00 am at Grace Church in Anadarko, OK. He will be laid to rest at Redbone...

Jerry Wayne Hughes

Jerry Wayne Hughes

December 10, 2023

No obituary found for this tribute.

Neil Travis Spradlin

Neil Travis Spradlin

December 9, 2023

Neil Travis Spradlin, 87, passed away on December 9, 2023 in Oklahoma City, OK. He was born October 27, 1936 in Anadarko, OK to Newt T. and Marie M. (Cosby) Spradlin. Neil attended and graduated the Anadarko Class of 1955. He joined the Army Reserve, then joined the Air Force for 4 years. Neil met the love of his life,...

Nick Callen

Nick Callen

December 9, 2023

Nick Arthur Callen, 80, of Gotebo, Oklahoma, passed away at home on December 9, 2023. He was born on May 29, 1943, to James and Lottie (wood) Callen in Norman, Oklahoma. Nick grew up and attended school in Cooperton until his Sophomore year, he then moved to Norman for his Junior and Senior year, graduating from Norman High School. After...

Deanna Gayle Wattenbarger

Deanna Gayle Wattenbarger

December 7, 2023

Deanna Gayle Wattenbarger, 83, of Hobart, Oklahoma, passed away on December 7th, 2023. She was born on May 5, 1940, to Glyn and Monna (Jennings) Corbin in Hobart, Oklahoma. She grew up and attended school in Port. She was Valedictorian in high school and graduated from Port High School in 1958. After high school Deanna attended OSU for two years....

Dangelo Olajuwon Pollard

Dangelo Olajuwon Pollard

December 7, 2023

Funeral service for Dangelo Olajuwon Pollard, 36 of Anadarko, Oklahoma is pending with Ray & Martha's Funeral Home. He died on Thursday, December 7, 2023, in Anadarko, Oklahoma.

Hank Frizzell

Hank Frizzell

December 5, 2023

Hank Frizzell, 61, passed away on December 5, 2023, surrounded by his family. Hank was born on August 28, 1962, to Henry Lee & Lou Ann Frizzell in Clinton, OK. He grew up in and around Clinton & Weatherford. He was a proud graduate of Weatherford High School, Class of 1980, where he made lifelong friendships. He married the love...

Carolyn Ruth Carpenter

Carolyn Ruth Carpenter

December 4, 2023

No obituary found for this tribute.

Richard Paul Kauahquo

Richard Paul Kauahquo

December 4, 2023

Richard Paul Kauahquo passed from this life on December 3rd 2023 at the age of 84 in Hobart, Oklahoma. He was born October 3rd, 1939 in Hobart, Oklahoma to Ernest Kauahquo and Helen Ahtapety Kauahquo. He was the great grandson of Chief Lone Wolf and Maunkee (Kiowa Bill). He was the grandson of Frank Kauahquo and Sarah Lone Wolf and...

Doris Marie Beck

Doris Marie Beck

December 4, 2023

Doris Marie Beck, 92, of Cordell, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully with her family by her side on December 4, 2023. She was born on March 7, 1931, to William Henry and Elizabeth Jane (Mitchell) Neeley in Butler, Oklahoma. Doris grew up and attended school in Dill City. She married the love of her life, Era Lee Beck, on June 12,...

Marty Lavert Autaubo

Marty Lavert Autaubo

November 30, 2023

Marty Lavert Autaubo, Loving Husband, Dad, Brother, Grandfather, and Uncle, passed away peacefully with his family by his side on November 30, 2023. He was born on May 3, 1947 to Henry and Agnes (Ware) Autaubo in Lawton, Oklahoma. Marty grew up and attended school in Mtn. View, OK. He served in the United States Army from 1968 to 1970...

Fredric Luke Cozad

Fredric Luke Cozad

November 29, 2023

Fredric (Freddie) Luke Cozad, 47, was born January 20th, 1976 to Lewis and Mabel (Tsoodle) Cozad. He departed this life peacefully to join his Lord and Savior on November 29th, 2023 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. As a young boy, Freddie received his Kiowa name, Koy-Hodle, which translates to "lungs." He treasured his Kiowa name, as it was passed down to...

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