Thomas Ward Chalepah aka Gates, 62 of Oklahoma City passed away with his family by his side on June 4th 2025. He was born on October 26th in Fort Cobb OK to Clarence Sr. and Sally (Autaubo) Chalepah. He grew up in Anadarko and attended school where he met his high school sweetheart. Together they had four children, who he loved dearly. He enjoyed watching the Sooners and Thunder play every chance he got. His hobbies included playing pool, trying his luck at bingo, playing baseball and attending concerts but he was best at telling stories. He was infamous for his humor and the ability to bring joy to everyone he met. He had an eclectic taste in music and he enjoyed listening to it on max volume and singing along just as loud. He was the life of the party and you could always count on him to get it started. He loved all his nieces like they were his own and he made sure they knew it whether it was a hug, a joke or a nickname. He was everyones Favorite Uncle and the Best Grandpa to all his grandkids. He was truly A one of a kind Cowboy and will be missed by all who knew and loved him.
He is survived by his children Letitia Chalepah and Antonia Ramos both of Lawton, Byran Whiteshield of Norman and Corinne Whiteshield of Anadarko. 8 Grandkids; Laisha, Kierra, Alex, Kasey, Andrew, Kaivon, Blake and Hazel. 2 Great grandsons Kamari and King. 4 Brothers; Stevie, Eddie, Teddy, and Sam. 3 sisters; Jodene, Janelle and Millie. Many other family and close friends including the Jones Family.
He is preceded in death by his parents, his son Thomas Jr, 4 Brothers; R.D., Earl, David and Brownie. 4 sisters; Clarene, Carolyn, Katt and Ladonna. His beloved Robyn Tovar and his 2 beautiful grandkids Isaiah and Destiny who welcomed him into his heavenly home.
Funeral: 11:00 a.m., Monday, June 9, 2025
Bethel Baptist Church, Anadarko
Visitation: 1:00 - 8:00 p.m., Saturday, June 7, 2025
1:00 - 4:30 p.m., Sunday, June 8, 2025
Ray & Martha's Funeral Home, Anadarko
Interment: Cache Creek Cemetery, Apache
Under the direction of Ray & Martha's Funeral Home, Anadarko
Saturday, June 7, 2025
1:00 - 8:00 pm (Central time)
Ray and Martha's Funeral Home Anadarko
Sunday, June 8, 2025
1:00 - 4:30 pm (Central time)
Ray and Martha's Funeral Home Anadarko
Sunday, June 8, 2025
Starts at 6:00 pm (Central time)
Apache Tribe Community Building
Monday, June 9, 2025
Starts at 11:00 am (Central time)
Bethel Baptist Church
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