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1954 Ronald 2023

Ronald Tsonetokoy

February 10, 1954 — December 21, 2023

Ronald Ross Tsonetokoy, born on February 10, 1954, to Fred & Grace (Lone Bear) Tsonetokoy, in Lawton, OK. He peacefully passed away on December 21, 2023. Ross was a proud member of the Kiowa Tribe, carrying with him the traditions and values that enriched his life. His connection to his cultural roots was a source of strength and identity. A graduate of Carnegie High School, Ross demonstrated a commitment to education and personal growth. His journey through school was a chapter in a life marked by determination and a pursuit of knowledge. In his professional life, Ross wore various hats, working as a mechanic, a photographer, and contributing to a local furniture store. His diverse skills and talents reflected his passion for learning and his dedication to making meaningful contributions to the community. Ronald Ross Tsonetokoy will be deeply missed by family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing him. His memory will live on in the hearts of those who were touched by his kindness, warmth, and the unique spirit he brought to every aspect of his life.

Survivors include:
Siblings: Patricia Ruth Tsonetokoy Bointy, & husband, Warner Jr, Fort Cobb, OK
Dewey D. Tsonetokoy, Carnegie, OK
Nieces: Jacqueline Tsonetokoy, Carnegie, OK
Leatrice G. Goombi & husband, Marlin Jr., Fort Cobb, OK
Stephanie L. Bointy, Norman, OK
Catherine Walker, Riverton, WY
Laura Tsonetokoy, Lawton, OK
Nephews: Conrad L. Bointy & wife, Misty, Anadarko, OK
Christopher A. Tsonetokoy, Carnegie, OK
Dewey Tsonetokoy Jr., Lawton, OK
Fredrick Scott Tsonetokoy, Lawton, OK
A host of other family & friends.

Preceded in death by his parents: Fred & Grace (Lone Bear) Tsonetokoy, Siblings: Geneva M. Walker, Linda J. Tsonetokoy, Nieces: Leslie Dae Tsonetokoy, Aurora Mae Bointy, Cassandra Amber Chasenah, and nephew: Dewey B. Walker.

Graveside Service: 11:00 a.m.,Wednesday, December 27, 2023
Carnegie Cemetery, Carnegie

Visitation: 1:00 -8:00 p.m., Tuesday, December 26, 2023
Ray & Martha's Funeral Home, Carnegie

Under the direction of Ray & Martha's Funeral Home, Carnegie
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Service Schedule

Past Services


Tuesday, December 26, 2023

12:00 - 8:00 pm (Central time)

Ray & Martha's Funeral Home, Carnegie

20 West Main Street, Carnegie, OK 73015

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Wednesday, December 27, 2023

Starts at 11:00 am (Central time)

Carnegie Cemetery

, Carnegie, OK 73015

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