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Roger William Stickler, 50, passed away in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, on September 2, 2026. He was born on April 29, 1976, in San Francisco, California, to Charles and Rachel (Tofpi) Stickler.
Roger graduated from Carnegie High School and was a proud alumnus of the Class of 1994. He attended Haskell for two years and later attended the University of Oklahoma (OU) for one year. In 2026, Roger received his bachelor's degree in Cyber Security from Oklahoma State University-Oklahoma City (OSU-OKC), an accomplishment he was very proud of.
He loved his family and friends dearly. His children were his pride and joy, and being a father was one of the greatest joys of his life. He cherished the time he spent with his children, family, and friends and will be remembered for the love, laughter, friendship, and countless memories he shared with those who knew and loved him.
Roger is survived by
Daughter: Leah Stickler, Oklahoma City
Son: Trey Stickler, Minnesota
Siblings: Cheryl Stickler, Oklahoma City
Charles L. Stickler, Jr., Chickasha, Oklahoma
Amanda LeAnn Stickler, California
Glenn Beaver and wife, Katherine, Anadarko, Oklahoma
Michael Longhat and wife, Kristi, Carnegie, Oklahoma
James Kelley and wife, Shandel, Ft. Cobb, Oklahoma
Aunts: Sarah Poor Buffalo, Carnegie, Oklahoma
Marietta Tofpi, Carnegie, Oklahoma
numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins.
Roger was preceded in death by his parents, Charles and Rachel (Tofpi) Stickler; uncles, Harry Tofpi and Lindber Tofpi; aunts, Mona Nauni and Ruby Bell Tofpi-Williams; grandparents, Roger and May Tofpi; and great-grandfather, Harry Hall.
Funeral: 10:00 AM, September 8, 2026
Red Wolf Hall
Carnegie, Oklahoma
Visitation: 3:00 - 8:00 PM, September 7, 2026
Ray & Martha's Funeral Home
Carnegie, Oklahoma
Interment: Cedar Creek Cemetery
Carnegie, Oklahoma
Services are under the direction of Ray & Martha's Funeral Home, Carnegie
Monday, September 7, 2026
3:00 - 8:00 pm (Central time)
Ray & Martha's Funeral Home (Carnegie)
Tuesday, September 8, 2026
Starts at 10:00 am (Central time)
Red Wolf Hall
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