Raynelle French, beloved daughter,mother family member, and friend, was born on July 27, 1961, in Lawton, Oklahoma, to Raymond and Cecelia Hummingbird French. She passed away on December 13, 2025, in Oklahoma City, surrounded by her loving family.
Raynelle lived a life defined by compassion and service. She was married to the love of her life, Melvin, for 30 years, and they remained devoted to one another until her passing. A devoted caretaker, she gave selflessly of her time and heart, always placing the needs of others before her own. Her kindness, patience, and gentle spirit touched everyone who had the privilege of knowing her. A proud mother to her one and only son Isaias French, the one that always kept her on her toes.
A proud member of the Kiowa Tribe, Raynelle cherished her heritage and the traditions that connected her to her family and community. Above all else, she loved spending time with her family, finding her greatest joy in shared moments, laughter, music and togetherness.
Raynelle will be remembered for her warmth, her unwavering dedication to those she cared for, and the love she freely gave. She leaves behind a legacy of compassion and family devotion that will continue to live on in the hearts of all who knew her.
Survivors include:
Husband: Melvin Kocher, OKC, OKC
Son: Isaias French & wife, Amber Hill, OKC, OK
Grandchildren: Lavinna French, Kylie French, & Isaias French, OKC, OK
Siblings: LaRue Lopez, OKC, OK
Bradley French, OKC, OK
A host of other family & friends
Preceded in death by her parents: Raymond & Cecelia French
Funeral: 11:00 a.m., Thursday, December 18, 2025
JJ Methvin United Methodist Church, Anadarko, OK
Interment: Memory Lane Cemetery, Anadarko, OK
Under the direction of Ray & Martha's Funeral Home, Anadarko, OK
J. J. Methvin Memorial United Methodist Church
Memory Lane Cemetery
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