Iris Silverhorn

May 23, 1936 — April 5, 2026

Iris Silverhorn, 89, of Anadarko, Ok passed away peacefully with her loved ones by her side on April 5, 2026.

Iris was born May 23, 1936 in Stecker, Ok as a twin and one of 11 children to Clara Tsalote and James Silverhorn. Iris was an enrolled member of the Kiowa Tribe and fluent in Kiowa. She was the last living full blooded Kiowa twin. She loved singing and listening to Kiowa Hymns. She grew up in a traditional Kiowa home and loved and respected the Kiowa ways. Iris was a homemaker who spent most of her life taking care of others and being a motherly figure to many who loved and appreciated her for it. Her energy, light and unique personality will never be forgotten. Iris had an infectious laugh that we all loved and will deeply miss. She was a beloved daughter, sister, mother, aunt, grandmother and friend who touched the lives of anyone who had the privilege to know her. Iris loved spending time with her daughter, grandkids and great grandkids. She loved her strong black coffee, watching classic movies, and her time at Brandon's where she made many friends throughout her life. A beautiful woman inside and out who taught us all that laughter is the best medicine.

She is preceded in death by parents Clara Tsalote and James Silverhorn; siblings, Clara Ruth Tofpi, Velma Silverhorn, Leonard Silverhorn, Bessie Ahhaitty, Billy Joe Silverhorn, Rosalyn Stevens, Robert Silverhorn and twin Phyllis Calcaterra; children, Henry Silverhorn, Jimmy Dean Silverhorn, Elizabeth Silverhorn; granddaughter, Kathryne Silverhorn

Iris is survived by sister Mary Lou Tselee of Anadarko, Ok; daughter, Clarissa Silverhorn of Anadarko, Ok; grandchildren, Amorette Silverhorn and companion Charles Longhat, Devin and Morton Autaubo, Christian Silverhorn, Chayton Silverhorn, Justine Robinson, all of Anadarko, Ok, Leanna and D'Angelo Jackson of Oklahoma City, Ok, Sacha Silverhorn and companion Justin Mendoza of Lawton,Ok, Savanna Silverhorn, Corey Poolaw and companion McKagan Redbird, Emerson Silverhorn all of Anadarko,Ok, Cameron and companion Clara Cisco, Katrina Silverhorn of Chickasha, Ok, Westley and Trinity Poolaw of Norman, Ok and numerous great grandchildren.

Visitation: 1:00 - 6:00 P.M., Friday, April 11, 2026

Ray & Martha's Funeral Home

Anadarko, Oklahoma

Wake: 7:00 P.M., Friday, April 11, 2026

Ray & Martha's Funeral Home

Anadarko, Oklahoma

Funeral: 11:00 A.M., Saturday, April 12, 2026

Grace Christian Fellowship

Anadarko, Oklahoma

Interment: Redstone Cemetery

Anadarko, Oklahoma

Services are under the direction of Ray & Martha's Funeral Home, Anadarko

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Service Schedule

Past Services

Visitation for Iris Silverhorn

Friday, April 10, 2026

1:00 - 6:00 pm (Central time)

Ray and Martha's Funeral Home Anadarko

1115 South Mission Street, Anadarko, OK 73005

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Wake for Iris Silverhorn

Friday, April 10, 2026

7:00 - 9:00 pm (Central time)

Ray and Martha's Funeral Home Anadarko

1115 South Mission Street, Anadarko, OK 73005

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Funeral for Iris Silverhorn

Saturday, April 11, 2026

Starts at 11:00 am (Central time)

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Interment for Iris Silverhorn

Saturday, April 11, 2026

Redstone Cemetery

, OK 73005

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