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Clifton "Strawberry" Tofpi, 78, of Carnegie, Oklahoma, went to his heavenly home peacefully on August 4, 2026, in Carnegie, surrounded by family and loved ones. Strawberry was born on December 9, 1947 to Conrad Cannon & Ethiline "Boots" Tsalote Tofpi, in Carnegie, Oklahoma. He was given the nickname Strawberry by his grandpa Roger Tofpi at birth. Raised by his grandmother Anna Katy Tofpi. He grew up in Carnegie, where he made lifelong friends and memories. He then moved to Oklahoma City and graduated from Classen High School in 1967. After graduating highschool Strawberry went into the Army. As a young man, he loved sports and was known for being naturally athletic and always ready for a little friendly competition. His life changed and he gave his life to the Lord in 1988 and was big on his faith. On March 18, 1989, he married the love of his life, Sarita Unap, in Bell Gardens, California. Together they built a life centered on faith, family, friends and taking care of one another.
Throughout his life, Strawberry worked hard and wore many hats. He spent years as a truck driver in Compton, California. Also worked at Riverside Indian School in Anadarko, Oklahoma, Apache & Comanche Housing Authority, and later owned and operated Tofpi Construction. Strawberry served the Lord for 37+ years, he would drive to Riverside to pick up the youth to bring them to church every Sunday. He served in every capacity with Victory Assembly of God Church in Anadarko, Oklahoma. He was member of Botone United Methodist Church in Carnegie, Oklahoma. At his passing he was a member of the 1st Caddo Baptist Church in Ft. Cobb, Oklahoma. Strawberry loved being outdoors. Fishing, Basketball and Golfing were some of his favorite pastimes, but nothing brought him more happiness than spreading the word of God, praying for people, going to church, and spending time with his children, grandchildren, and the rest of his family. Especially his last two grandbabies, Sophie and Scarlett. Strawberry was a proud member of the Kiowa Tribe. His memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him.
Survivors include:
Wife: Sarita Tofpi, Carnegie, OK
Children: Clifton C. Tofpi, Jr., OKC, OK
Dwayne Keith Tofpi, OKC, OK
Candace Milam OKC, OK
Kevin Michael Tofpi & wife, Carol, OKC, OK
Anna Claire Tofpi, Tulsa, OK
Travis Tofpi, Buffalo, NY
Corey Clark Tofpi, Carnegie, OK
Samantha Irene Martin & husband, Taylor, Carnegie, OK
A host of grandchildren, great grandchildren, nieces, and nephews
Sisters: Rev. Jan Haury Ticeahkie, Geronimo, OK
Catherine Haury, Wichita, KS
Theresa Kayitah, Carnegie, OK
Preceded in death by his parents: Conrad Cannon & Ethiline "Boots" Tsalote Tofpi,
Grandmother: Anna Katy Tofpi, Grandson: Wyatt Arthur Martin
Siblings: Donald Haury, Jr Haury, Herman Haury, Elizabeth Haury, Elizabeth Haury, Nancy Haury and Lottie Haury, brother in law: Rev. Fred Ticeahkie
Funeral: 11:00 a.m., Saturday, August 8, 2026
First Baptist Church, Carnegie, OK
Visitation: 3:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m., Thursday, August 6, 2026
1:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m., Friday, August 7, 2026
Ray & Martha's Funeral Home, Carnegie, OK
Wake: 7:00 p.m., Friday, August 7, 2026
Cedar Creek United Methodist Church, Carnegie, OK
Interment: Carnegie Cemetery, Carnegie, OK
Under the direction of Ray & Martha's Funeral Home, Carnegie, OK
Thursday, August 6, 2026
3:00 - 8:00 pm (Central time)
Ray & Martha's Funeral Home (Carnegie)
Friday, August 7, 2026
1:00 - 5:00 pm (Central time)
Ray & Martha's Funeral Home (Carnegie)
Friday, August 7, 2026
7:00 - 9:00 pm (Central time)
Cedar Creek United Methodist Church
Saturday, August 8, 2026
Starts at 11:00 am (Central time)
First Baptist Church
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