Bruce Trent Kaulaity, 35, passed away with family by his side on October 16, 2025, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. He was born on September 21, 1990, in Lawton, Oklahoma to Tina (Redbird) Oheltoint and the late Robert Lewis Kaulaity, Jr.
Bruce was a hardworking concrete finisher whose dedication and skill were evident in every project he touched. Beyond his work, he was an avid sports fan with a special love for football-spending his Saturdays cheering passionately for the Oklahoma University Sooners and his Sundays devoted to the Dallas Cowboys. Family was the heart of Bruce's life; he cherished every moment spent with his children and found joy in bringing them together with the delicious meals he lovingly prepared. He graduated from Anadarko High School class of 2009, from a young age he excelled in wrestling, baseball, football, and basketball. He was a proud member of the Apache Tribe of Oklahoma with Kiowa and Comanche descent. He was an active member of the O-Ho-Mah Lodge, of which his great-grandfather, Matthew "Mac" Whitehorse, was the Bustle Keeper up until his passing. His warmth, devotion, and spirited love for both family and football will forever be remembered by those who knew and loved him. He will be missed by his family and many friends he made throughout his lifetime.
His maternal grandparents, Ernest, Jr. and Gloria Redbird; great-grandparents, George & Vivian (Tsatoke) Komardley; Ernest Redbird, Sr. and Ruth (Whitetox) Redbird. He was the first grandchild to Ernest and Gloria Redbird. One might say, " Aw-Day Tahlee" which means in Kiowa, "Whatever he wanted he got." They could never tell him no.
His paternal grandparents; the late Robert Lewis Kaulaity, Sr. and Berle (Whitehorse) Boyiddle; great-grandparents, Manfred and Margaret (Blankenship) Kaulaity; Matthew "Mac" and Lucille Whitehorse.
Left to honor the memory of Bruce are his mother, Tina (Redbird) Oheltoint and husband, Rudy Oheltoint, Jr. of Anadarko; companion, Erin Hutton of Elgin; children, Jaycee Alexander, Addilyn Alexander, Brentley Kaulaity, Robert Kaulaity; Aubriana Kionute all of Elgin, and Kambren Moser of Anadarko; siblings, Brittnie Kaulaity of Moore, Matthew Kaulaity and wife, Shayna of Lawton, Cody Kaulaity of Anadarko and Dylan Kaulaity of Seminole; grandparents, Ernest and Gloria Redbird of Carnegie, and Berle Boyiddle of Anadarko; uncles, George Redbird of Anadarko, and William "Dex" Boyiddle of Anadarko; aunts, Robin Botone of Anadarko, and Kelli Gregory of Anadarko.
He was greeted in heaven by his father, Robert Lewis Kaulaity, Jr.; uncle, Ernest Redbird, III.; and aunts, Sherri Lynn Redbird and Leigh Ann Kaulaity.
Funeral Service: 11:00 AM Wednesday, October 22, 2025
Red Wolf Hall
Carnegie, Oklahoma
Visitation: 1:00 - 5:00 PM Tuesday, October 21, 2025
Ray & Martha's Funeral Home,
Carnegie, Oklahoma
Wake: 6:00 PM Tuesday, October 21, 2025
Red Wolf Hall
Carnegie, Oklahoma
Interment: Carnegie Cemetery
Carnegie, Oklahoma
Services under the direction of Ray & Martha's Funeral Home, Carnegie, Oklahoma
Ray & Martha's Funeral Home (Carnegie)
Red Wolf Hall
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Carnegie Cemetery
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