Martha Helen Kaulaity

August 19, 1948 - April 6, 2019
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Funeral Services for Martha Helen Kaulaity, 70, will be held Friday, April 12, 2019 at 11:00 at the Carnegie First Baptist Church. A wake service will be held Thursday, April 11, 2019 at 7:00 at Ray & Martha's Funeral Chapel in Carnegie. Donnie Ahhaitty will be officiating the services.

Martha H. Kaulaity was born August 19, 1948 in Lawton, Ok. and passed away peacefully, Saturday, April 6, 2019--with family by her side. She was born to Adam Kaulaity, Sr. and Helen Redhorn Kaulaity.

She attended Mtn. View Public Schools and graduated with the Class of 1967. She then furthered her education at Haskell Institute and completed the two year business program. She accepted a position in Washington DC with the U.S. Department of State where she worked forty-five years which provided her the opportunity to travel extensively to numerous foreign countries, as a Secretary to General Counsel.

She was elected to serve as Kiowa Tribal Princess in 1967. She enjoyed and loved her family and friends dearly. After her retirement she enjoyed attending tribal gatherings. She loved singing behind the drum as a chorus lady. She also loved her cats. She enjoyed playing at the casino.

Survivors: Daughter Deana Steger, son-in-law, Jay. Grandsons Jordan and Justin, all of Ft. Worth, Texas.
Five brothers: Cliff and wife Liz Reeder, Alvin, Adam Jr., Jesse and wife Marlinda, & George.
Six Sisters: Alpha, Sallie, Nema, Valerie, Cherie, Carol & husband Tim Vetter. She also has numerous nieces, nephews, grandchildren, &
many other relatives and friends.

Preceded in death by her son James Lawrence Kaulaity Bluestone, her parents, her sisters, Janice Kaulaity and Lenora Catterson, and brother Donald Lonewolf, paternal grandparents Joe & Sallie Tonekeahbo Kaulaity, maternal grandparents Jesse & Clara Paddlety Redhorn Quoinquodle.

Burial will be at Samone Tribal Cemetery, Carnegie, Oklahoma

Under the direction of Ray & Martha's Funeral Home, Carnegie, Oklahoma

Service Information

Date: April 10, 2019
Time: 9:00 am - 8:00 pm
Date: April 11, 2019
Time: 9:00 am - 7:00 pm
Date: April 12, 2019
Time: 11:00 am

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Valerie Kaulaity
Siloam Springs, AR
Love you big sister,I sure am going miss you ?

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Franklin E. Akoneto
Walters, OK
My Precious Relatives:
On behalf of the Rudy Akoneto family, we extend our heartfelt condolences.  We were always so proud of our Aunt's successful career that served as a role model for so many Native women.  When she retired and came back to Oklahoma, we were so happy to visit with her on the family's many outings to the Lawton area.  Our Kaulaity Aunts & Say-ghees are very precious to us, serving as reminders of our family's rich legacy.  We know when she transitioned into Eternity on Saturday, our Heavenly Father and all the folks were there to greet her.  We praise Daw Khee for providing the Comforter that will be with you all in the challenging days ahead.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Alex Mobley
Okc, OK
My loving aunt. Always smiled and asked how I was doing. Love her so very much and will always greatly miss her.
Sonya Orange
Hammon, OK
My beautiful Aunt Martha (Jum). She traveled the world. I will always have fond memories of getting the Swiss chocolates that she would bring back from her travels to Switzerland with her job. She made Christmas a wonderful time and we all knew we would have Swiss chocolates in our candy sacks. Aunt Jum's beautiful singing voice will be missed around the drum. Praying for strength and comfort for our family in the days to come.
Crystal Catterson Ahdunko
Carnegie, OK
I am gonna miss you Aunt Jummy, keeping our family in prayer . Love you all??
James and Stephanie
Oklahoma City, OK
Love you and will miss you greatly.
Bill Reedy
Carnegie, OK
Love and Prayers!!!
Tom, Trace, Brooke & Dakota
Hayden, CO
Thank you for everything that you have done for us.  We will definitely miss that dimple smile and your wonderful laugh.  Love you, Aunt Jummy!!!
Lucinda Domebo
Gracemont, OK
So sorry, prayers for you and your family ??
Lynn Munoz
Carnegie, OK
Always beautiful, Princess you will be missed & forever loved ??
Sondra Dupoint
Anadarko, OK
Prayers for the family!
Jacqueline Big Bow
Mountain View, OK
I will truly miss you, tell all of our family that we are all ready for our time to leave this earth.  Until I see you again blessings on the family and all of your loved ones!!
Sunbeam Kaulaity
Burns Flat, OK
My love and prayers are with y'all each and every day.
H. June Marshall
Okmulgee, OK
Martha: we had a lot.of fun when we were growing up along with Alpha, Nora, Sally, and remember how much fun and.nice your parents where to us Miller kids.  Loved Helen and Adam. Sure did miss you when you left home, and i left home too. Blessings and.condolences to the Kaulaity family.
Lula Bia
Saint Michales, AZ
God's blessings and Condolences to the Kaulaity Family. Martha (Jum) visited with our family on the Dine Nation several times when she came to see her brother Jess and his family (Marlinda and sons). My memory of dear Jum is her love for Jess and his family. My niece/daughter Marlinda and son Jess were so proud of their sister, her travels and accomplishments. I'm so thankful to have met her and to have shared some of our life's experiences. She will be greatly missed but will remain in memory and hearts of those she touched.  Prayers for the Kaulaity family.
Amanda Rose Kaulaity
Gone but never forgotten love and miss you Aunt jum give my momma a kiss for me.
Love always your niece Amanda Rose
Dobbin monoessy
Pawnee, OK
My condolences to family and friends.
Laura Hilliard Wells
Oklahoma City, OK
Martha was such a nice lady. Always fun to be around in our high school days.  Prayers for her family and friends.
Mel A
Carnegie, OK
I still can't believe you're gone, I'm still not processing this. I keep thinking I'll see you in the casino, but I know I won't. I know that you're in a better place and I know that you are with James and I know you are so happy, but it still hurts. Love you so much and I'll always remember that time we went to see Dumb and Dumber at the theater in Lawton and we the only ones in there cracking up. Just gonna miss all the funny things that you said especially when you mix up your words, like I do. Love you!!!
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